Second opinion on abortions.

*I'm so so sorry! I've been so busy and I haven't written a blog on here since sept. I feel terrible!*


Over these few months since writing my blog about abortions,I've had some conversations, research, and information from a science teacher about abortions. I have a slightly different opinion on abortions. Don't get me wrong, I'm COMPLETELY against them, but there ARE exceptions. An obvious exception is rape. If yu know yu are too young or yu absolutely cannot have a baby, I guess it's exceptable. Yu could always just give the baby up for adoption, but that's my opinion. The second exception is if the baby dies in the early stages of birth [yu can't leave it in there!]. So yu have no choice but to take it out. Another thing where I can let the whole abortion thing slide is if the baby is having birth difficulties and is causing health problems to the mother. It's either the baby or both. There are different kinds of abortion and those are inncocent situations where it's tollerable. But otherwise,it's yur own fault. If yu didn't want a baby,why did yu have intercourse! If yu haven't noticed, sex leads to a baby! And as long as yu've matured yur NEVER safe from babies unless yu don't have a uterus. haha.:) Condoms just help but it can still break or slip or yur boyfriend could forget to put one on! The only way a baby is preventable is to not have sex!

The blog before this one is still based on my opinion but this one is an improved version.

Take time to realize what I'm telling yu.

All my love,
vannie_bananie

butterfly kisses.

*ok first of all i just wanted to say that i am sorry i havent posted any new blogs in awhile. i have been pretty busy and im glad that i have a chance to write this one.*

*this one goes out to my daddy.*



Alright i no im getting pretty old now now. i mean i just started junior high!! woooo!! haha. Well we havent been getting a long lately but i think its because you are scared. im not a little caterpillar anymore. im a growing butterfly. but that doesnt mean im all grown up. im a work in progress and even i have a hard time understanding there. i am hoping that me and my daddy can get a long because dad, i just need u right now in this confusing world of entering teen world. its not just a girl thing between me and my mom. i need you there too. and when im all grown up and moving into my own home and when i get married just remember, your little butterfly will be sending you butterfly kisses your way. And you will beable to keep them and i will have memory of sending them. Even though you cant always see me, i will always be right there standing next to you.

I LOVE YOU FOREVER I LOVE YOU FOR ALWAYS AS LONG AS IM LIVING MY DADDY YOU'LL BE.

I LOVE YOU!!!!!!

Two Faced

I had this friend. She was like the best person that came along in my life. At least that's is what i thought. We had only known eachother for a year, not even a year and we acted like we have known eachother forever. We went everywhere together and spent practically everyday together. What can i say, we were best friends. Things were going just fine, she was a shy yet outgoing girl. But then she started getting way to comfortable with the new school and people because she was new to my school. She got a boyfriend and started hanging out with some of the wrong people. All of a sudden she was setting me up, ditching me, and calling me when noone else was available. I had asked her a whole bunch of times if i had upset her where she didnt want to be around me anymore. She declared she hadn't change but everyone was starting to notice too. It wasn't just me. Then i finally admitted to myself that she was two faced. My parents had tried to warn me that one day she was going to hurt me so badly that she would officialy make me brake down and they were right. I would come home all the time crying because of how badly she hurt me but i didnt want to believe that our friendship was splitting and fading away. She would act different around other people and talk about me behind my back. She would get mad at me for the stupidest reasons and i grew insecure about it. Just the other day we were hanging out and she just flew off the handle. She screamed at me and declared us never to be friends again. She said some nasty things about me on myspace and hurt it hurt so badly because everything that my family had done for her obviously meant nothing. So now i am forced to pray about it and move on. It's so sad that such a strong relationship had to end over something so small and stupid.


I bet a lot of girls can relate to this story and i just want you ladies to know, that if this is happening to you talk to your friend before something terrible and hurtful happens to the both of you. If you notice that you might be doing this to a friend apologize to her right now and just let her know you care about her and just be with her. You could be hurting her in ways you couldn't imagine. Stay strong and pray about all of this.

Dear lord i pray that girl world could become peaceful and us girls could just be together and not be hurting and emotional all of the time. Girls deserve to be happy and loving life and i know we can do it. But i know we will need your help healing. Put your healing hand on us all and we will love.
Amen.

~LuvNstuff~

I need a gf/bf!!!!

Mom i need a gf/bf. Young men and women say that all the time! First it was cute, then it was annoying, and now it's really starting to tic me off. Come on people, show some dignity! We do not need a gf/bf do be complete. They are not the "missing piece" in our lives to be whole. Personally i am perfectly happy being single and i feel whole! Thats how everybody should feel. I think it's pretty silly to be crying over being silly when you should be loving it. When your single you can flirt with multiple guys/girls without feeling guilty!! lol. Stand up, have some dignity, and be grateful and happy!!!!

~LuvNstufF~

What if?!

Everyday somebody is always freaking out about what happened in the past or what is going to happen in the future. I have something to tell those people.Chillax!!! If you made a mistake in the past or you think you didn't make the right decision yesterday or something in that matter, just shake it off and move on. Don't do the whole "what if" act just accept it. Same goes with the future. If you are going to a friends house or to the beach and your really excited, that's ok but don't waste the time you have in the present waiting for the future. That also goes with if your afraid of what might happen in the future as well. Don't sweat it because every given moment is a gift from god and the worst thing you can do with a gift is waste it and make it unimportant. Every second counts. So the next time you catch yourself thinking about anytime but right then, relax, breathe, and cherish the moment that you have because sadly, they don't last forever.

Let's take a second to thank god for every given day that has been brought upon us.
thank you lord for everything that you give us. we love you.
amen

~LuvNstuff~

Fairy Tale

I hate it when people use the term "happily ever after" We are not living in some fairy tale world where everything is just a ok. that is something we use in make believe story books and tell ur five year old little girl. i mean yeahh people may think they live in some fairy tale but everything has there odds and perks but nothing can be absolutely perfect. when u get a new boyfriend u may think that ur life will be completely perfect. trust me ur just getting started. look for being sad then happy then u get all sad again. it is not ur happily ever after. lets say u get a new job. u may be so phsyched to have a new job but eventually it will suck and u will start to regret it. So when people say "happily ever after" i want to get up and say "once upon a time"

ily!!!
~luvNstuff~

The Sad Truth

it absolutely disgusts me when i see a guy eyeing a girl for his own pleasure hoping that he can have her as a sex toy then throw her away for some other random girl. that is not how we want or deserve to be treated. guys who are highly addicted to porn think thats its no big deal to be constantly surfing the web for some naked model or a young girl with her legs spread open. even though its a picture its still disrespect. when women agree to be in that kind of culture its usually for some insecurity. either she goin through depression or mourn or think there is no reason to live or starving herself to be "pretty" or even shooting up drugs every six hours or getting laid at the age of 14. womenhood is complicated and confusing and for a guy to just think of them as sexy or horny or just thinking sex when they look at them is to make things 50 times worse. i know its hard to completely quit something your addicted to but seriously that for sure is NOT why God put us women on the earth. when women say things we arent just blowin smoke out of our asses. take a minute to realize what we go through. in some areas of the Congo 12 year old girls are being used as sex slaves and being killed and having to watch there families be tortured and raped and hung to death. THIS IS A TRUE STORY SO GUYS, TAKE TIME TO THINK ABOUT THE TRUE IMPORTANCE OF WOMEN AND TAKE TIME TO COMFORT US AND MAKE US FEEL IMPORTANT INSTEAD OF THINKING ABOUT US WITH OUR CLOTHES OFF CUZ THAT IS NOT WHAT WE ARE HERE FOR. AMEN TO MY SISTERS OUT THERE WHO GO THROUGH THIS. I PRAY THAT WE CAN ALL FINALLY LIVE IN PEACE AND BE NOTICED AND APPRECIATED. LOOK TO GOD WHEN UR DOWN AND US WOMEN WILL GO THROUGH THIS ONE TEARDROP AT A TIME.